So my best friend asked me this question last night, and it made me laugh a little bit. Then again all her dying questions were humorous to me. In all seriousness, she asked me "How to outdo these n**** before they play you?" So I call this post "Play Before You Get Played".
Sadly for most females, you already played yourselves even before you meet a guy. What women seek is high expectations, while men seek low standards. I think it should be flipped the other way around. Let me explain.
It's damn near ridiculous. Why give someone complete power over you? We as women should have complete and total control of how things play out in a relationship, you just don't understand. But why do you always end up with the short end of the stick? We have the tendency to be easily persuaded by words of "candor". You take to heart all the promises you hope come true. With that, you feel like you found the man of your dreams! Next thing you know, emotions get in tact and you continue to believe everything a dude throws in your face.
You are expecting so much from practically so little, you get your feelings hurts with no where to turn next. Right there shows how you played yourself. You can point the blame on him all you please but in then, guys only do what you allow them to. If you seeing a guy, and trying to figure how not to get played, you have the tools to play the game yourself. Just don't expect much and not take all the words you hear to heart. You may have been born with intuition, but also with two eyes and a brain. If you haven't already noticed, saying and doing are two completely different words. Start paying attention to what he does instead of what he says. If actions do not constantly back what he says, then the guy is complete bullshit.
Point is: Don't expect too much from someone who talks a lot. Play your cards right before dealing them all in at once.
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